How to Recognize and Respond to Bids for Connection

The key to emotional intimacy isn’t found in grand gestures—it’s hidden in the small, everyday moments you’re probably missing.

If your relationship feels disconnected, tense, or “off” lately, it might not be because of a lack of love—it’s likely because you’re not recognizing the small emotional signals your partner is sending you.

These signals are called bids for connection—tiny attempts to get your attention, affection, support, or presence.
Most couples don’t realize they’re missing them until it’s too late. But once you learn how to spot them, respond to them, and lean into them, your relationship transforms.

This digital guide will teach you exactly how to:

• Identify subtle emotional bids your partner is making (verbal, non-verbal, and behavioral)

• Understand the real meaning behind everyday moments like “Did you see that?” or “You never help me”

• Respond in a way that builds emotional trust, connection, and intimacy

• Repair missed bids and prevent resentment or emotional distance from growing

• Create a relationship culture where both of you feel seen, safe, and deeply connected

What You’ll Get:

• A step-by-step framework for decoding emotional bids from your partner

• Real-world examples of what bids look like in everyday life (and how to respond)

• Communication scripts and prompts for turning toward your partner more often

• Simple daily rituals to strengthen your emotional connection in 5 minutes or less

• Tools for rebuilding intimacy, trust, and emotional safety after disconnection

This Guide Is Perfect For:

• Couples feeling disconnected or emotionally distant

• Men and women who want to improve communication and emotional intimacy

• Partners recovering from conflict, betrayal, or emotional shutdown

• Anyone who wants a proven framework for building a stronger, safer, more loving relationship

Every day, your partner is reaching out.
Most of the time, it’s unspoken.
And every time you miss it, the distance grows.

This guide helps you stop missing the moments that matter—and start building the connection you both crave.

👉 Download The Unspoken Ask today and start turning toward each other—one bid at a time.